Manifest & Bake Ideal Partner Cake

What are the secret key ingredients in manifesting your ideal partner?  The four main characteristics to be successful in a love partnership are honesty, trust, reliability and great communications skills.  They must be in every relationship to make it last.  So they go into the first layer of your cake. 

 

Your second delicious layer should also be on the “must have list.  They include caring, commitment to you, cooperation with you, and respect for you. 

 

Yesterday I gave you 10 characteristics that would be icing on your cake.  If you and your partner do not have similar core values, your relationship will likely not succeed.  So choose among these additional core values to see which ones are important to you.  Are they important to your sweetheart?  These are your sweetening icing!

 

Let’s look at 10 more possible ingredients for your icing:

creativity                          detachment                    determination

diligence                            enthusiasm                     excellence

flexibility                         forgiveness                     friendliness        

generosity

 

I’ll add more of these in a later post.  But what does your cake look like?  Here’s an example!   

Mercury is retrograde and wordpress won’t let me upload the picture.  I’ll try again later!   

Perfect Partner Cake

Perfect Partner Cake

I love my journey into myself.  Do you love your journey?  If not, then do the work to empower yourself!  If you found this helpful, then visit my website www.moonwomenspirituality.com.  If your want information on how the daily Moon and Sun energy affects you, your love and your relationships, visit www.astromoon.wordpress.com

 

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Manifest Your Ideal Soul Mate & Friendships

It is prime time for manifesting the ideal man or the ideal woman you want as your soul mate.  Similarly, if you want close reliable friendships to manifest in your life, then you need to learn about loving yourself first!

 

 

Bake a Perfect Partner Cake! 

So who is this heavenly partner you are going to manifest?  Before you can possibly bring your ideal person into your life, you must be clear on what qualities he or she should have.  It’s like baking a cake.  What are the main ingredients?  In other words, what do you answer to the following?

a.      4 ingredients or qualities you absolutely need to have in a partner or friend

b.      4 qualities or characteristics that would be nice to have – icing on the cake!

c.      4 qualities I absolutely do NOT want – it would ruin my cake!

 

Here is a list of the first 10 ingredients or qualities that you might want to consider to get you started:

Assertiveness         caring          cleanliness             commitment

Compassion             confidence    consideration         cooperation

                    Courage                 courtesy

 

 

Reflection Questions! 

  1. Make a list of 10 or more people who are closest to you whom you love.
  2. Who of those people do you trust to be in your inner circle of deep friendship? Put them in the category of Friends # 1
  3. Who does not make your inner circle of loving people who support you when life has its dark moments? Put them in the mental category of Friends # 2
  4. Who are you focusing your time energy on?   Friends #1 or Friends #2
  5. Love yourself first.  How on earth can you possibly take care of others if you do not take care of you?  On a scale of 1 – 10 how well did you pamper yourself and love yourself yesterday?  If you are not at least at a 6, then start pampering yourself today!

 

Once you are clear with yourself as to what qualities you want, put those words into affirmations for your manifesting or vision board.  Then say them every day at the beginning of your day or just before you go to sleep.  The Law of Attraction and the Universe will bring people with these awesome characteristics into your world.  Empower yourself with your Vision Board of your ideal world.  You get to choose!

 

Affirmation:  My ideal partner has these qualities of ________.  He or she is in my world now.  I’m grateful to the universe for bringing my ideal partner to me.  S/he resonates with the qualities I need to bake my perfect partnership cake!

 

 

For it was not into my ear you whispered,

But into my heart.

It was not my lips you kissed,

But my soul.

(Judy Garland)

 

 

I love my journey into myself.  Do you love your journey?  If not, then do the work to empower yourself!  If you found this helpful, then visit my website www.moonwomenspirituality.com.  If your want information on how the daily Moon and Sun energy affects you, your love and your relationships, visit www.wisewomaninwoods.blog.ca

5 CHART Secrets to Ideal Man or Woman Relationship

We all want to chart our way to the ideal relationship with a partner.  Whether you are looking for the ideal man or the ideal woman in a relationship, there is a road map or chart to growing that relationship.  The same holds true for growing a fabulous friendship!

 

 

First you find someone worthy of you and then apply the CHART acronym and principles below.  If you don’t have any of these five fundamental foundation keys, your relationship will wither and die.  When one practices, the spiritual principles of the law of attraction, one manifests a partner whose energy mirrors your own.  In my experience in counseling as well as growing my own marriage, I have found these secret keys to make a relationship not only thrive, but also come alive!

 

 

C ommunication.  Talk about the little things as well as the big things!

H onesty.  The ability to trust your partner enough to be 100% honest

A ttitude of a cup half full.  In other words, a positive reframing attitude.

R espect for each others strengths and weaknesses.  We all have both. 

T rust.  If you take the “t” off you get rust and then you have dust!

 

Recently a woman married for 10 years with 3 kids told me she was ready to throw in the towel and end her marriage.  To all outward appearances, she has it all with a successful husband, a nice home and luxury of being a stay-at-home mother.  Now I happen to know this successful workaholic husband adores his wife and kids.  So what was missing?  The only element from the CHART was communication.  Hubby was too busy to listen to what was important to his wife and acknowledge her emotional needs.  She needed to be heard.  Communication has two elements to it.  One of these is to be heard and the other is to speak.  Both pieces have to be in place before you have communication and both man and woman have to have their say as well as their hearing. 

 

 

 

Reflection Questions Love Quiz On a scale of 1-10 rate yourself.  5 = average, 10 is top of the scale.

  1. communication – how well do I listen? 
  2. communication –  Do I feel like I am heard by my partner?
  3. honesty – how much can you honestly tell to your honey?
  4. attitude – how frequently do you show that you are contented to be with your main squeeze?  Are you positive or negative?
  5. respect – strengths, gifts and talents – do you support these in your partner?
  6. respect – weaknesses – do you make allowances for these? 
  7. trust – how well can you trust the person you love?  What percentage of the time?

If you scored 5 or less on any one of these areas, you have some major work to do on your relationship.  The higher you score the better quality relationship you have.  A note of caution to all of you is that a relationship has to be constantly watered with CHART elements or it withers and blows away in the dust!  CHART holds true for quality friendships as well.

 

 

May the hinges of love never rust

nor the wings of friendship lose a feather

(Jack Frost, 2008)

 

I love my journey into myself.  Do you love your journey?  If not, then do the work to empower yourself!  If you found this helpful, then visit my website www.moonwomenspirituality.com.  If your want information on how the daily Moon and Sun energy affects you, your love and your relationships, visit www.wisewomaninwoods.blog.ca