Bullies are Sociopaths & Psychopaths

Bullies in the Hood?  Bullies in your office?  Bullies in your family? Take back your Sacred Space.  Take back your Neighborhood! Use your mind-body-spirit connection to rid your world of these toxic bugs.  They are like pesky mosquitoes everywhere.  Visualize them as being a pesky mosquito and “slap” them mentally, emotionally and spiritually.    

 

 

I have worked with some pretty mean bullies in my lifetime.  The psychological literature shows that bullies are frequently our bosses.  They are found in every family.  They are found in every political party.  They are found in every neighborhood.  They are found in every club and organization.

 

 

Let me explain what their behavior means in psychological terms.  According to the DSMIV, they are officially one of two names either sociopaths or psychopaths.  They exhibit psychopathological behavior.  Yes, I know, you thought those were the people in jail who committed some unspeakable crime.  They too are sociopaths who have committed a crime they got caught for.  There are also sociopaths who frequently are white color workers or like I said, they live and breathe everywhere.  They clearly exhibit the same types of emotional and behavioral patterns that have put the others behind bars.  Like prisoners, they are prisoners within their own skin because of their choices. Some we call psychic vampires or soul vampires.  We totally feel drained when we are in their presence.  I have written about that earlier in this blog.

 

 

 

Nobody has every liked them since they were kids.  They are totally insecure.  Let me explain.  All of us want attention when we are children.  If we can’t get it in a positive way, then we become poorly behaved and get that attention in a negative way.  Take a look at any adorable 2 year old.  If they don’t get loving attention, they start screaming just so that someone will pay attention to them and their emotions.  So a bully is self-created by their own choice of how to act!

 

 

When it goes on for a long time, they learn the only way they can get attention from their peers is through bullying and intimidation.  They use manipulation to get others to bend to their will.  They use this energy of fear tactics because it is the only way they have any personal power.  The other way they get power is to get into a position of authority.  Then what absolute horrors they bring to all our lives. 

 

 

So what can we do about it?  One strategy I have already told you about.  Visualize and don’t run away.  Face them head on.  You see bullies do not like to be confronted.  They don’t know what to do if someone isn’t screaming or shouting back.  If you remain calm, cool and collected, they are totally unsure of themselves.  They feed off fear energy. 

 

 

Conversely, another more powerful strategy  is you can be an angel, but a firm angel.  First do the visualization so that you are changing the energy around you.  You’ll be giggling inside at least.  Then surround yourself with a golden colored cocoon so their negative energy won’t hurt you.  Next send them loving energy.  Wrap them tightly in warm soothing hugs and send them love energy.  That’s truly what they crave.  But you see, they do not love themselves.  If a person does not love themselves, they are incapable of ever loving anyone else.  We have to surround them in a multisensory way with love energy.  If you are an angel of light, you will do what you can to help this impoverished soul.  They are in such emotional pain. 

 

 

Personally, I feel sorry for the choices they have made for themselves during their life’s journey.  At any moment in time, these bullies can choose to change their own energy.  They too can choose to begin loving themselves.  This in turn will help them to loving others in a healthy way.  Be an angel.  Help them to change their energy if you are a healer and they want to change their energy.  These bullies are truly in their own personal self-created hell. 

 

Affirmations and Intentions:  I intend to teach others to change their attitudes when they are ready to love themselves.

 

 

Let’s increase the Love and vibrant energy of the planet!

Hugs and love from the Universe.

 

 

For more information on dealing with the energy around life, love and relationships, visit my blog at  www.astromoon.wordpress.com.  If you are on a spiritual journey, you might also want to explore my website at www.moonwomenspirituality.com. 

 [M. Scott Peck, psychiatrist wrote his book, People of the Lie, explaining this in more depth.]

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14 Responses to “Bullies are Sociopaths & Psychopaths”

  1. WizardParadox Says:

    Good Stuff, raising awareness and with a positive message, I must remember to keep that positive bright and healing message..

  2. sherrieh Says:

    I can’t take total credit for it. Fortunately when I was studying psychology, I took a course on Childhood Psychopathogy. Those seeds of writing were planted then when I went on to work with many of them for many years.

    [M. Scott Peck, psychiatrist wrote his book, People of the Lie, explaining this in more depth.] I must add that in if people choose to explore this more thoroughly.

  3. goldenferi Says:

    What a valuable post. I should show this to the little gal I work with.

  4. Memee Says:

    Ain’t human behaviour grand?

    Most bullies .. are bullies.. because they feel inferior to everyone else. Point that out to one in the middle of their rampage and watch the air come whizzing out of their balloon.

    🙂

  5. Leticia Says:

    A very good work!
    More power to you, and thank you for this link.

  6. sherrieh Says:

    Thanks Goldenferi. Please help empower your coworker! Warm hugs and angel whispers!

  7. sherrieh Says:

    Memee, you are 100% correct. They truly are the most insecure people in the world. I have used the slapping the mosquito strategy to great effect whenever approached by a bully. Just doing it mentally makes them recoil! It empowers us not to bow before the verbal toxic words that many bullies like to throw around. Warm hugs!

  8. sherrieh Says:

    Leticia, I’m delighted that something here might empower you and help you. I truly believe we have to take back our personal power! Go with many blessings from above!

    • nicole Says:

      Thanks – A great read and a great blog. I completely agree. Unfortunately I live with someone like this. Have tired to help, but seems to slip back to past behaviors. Very draining! Thanks for your thoughts – nice to have it reaffirmed!

      • sherrieh Says:

        Yes you cannot change anyone, you can only change your own behaviorial or emotional response to that person. Nicole seriously consider your life and your future. Think of it as a canvas or painting and paint what you want your todays and tomorrow to look like. Then decide whether the lessons from this relationship are something you wish to continue with. It is within your power to make different choices for your life. Many blessings!

  9. Barbara Says:

    good article. wish it was that easy when they are relentless, manipulate the legal system, lie about you using the truth (as only a psychopath can) and the victim has C-PTSD or PTSD and is brainwashed or trauma bonded.

    • sherrieh Says:

      Yes Barbara. People have to empower themselves when dealing with a sociopath or psychopath. Thanks for the link which you included in your next post. Many blessings!


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