Alone? Feeling lonely? Many people feel crushed by love. They have bleeding hearts and wonder how they can possibly move forward with their lives. They rush from relationship to relationship because they are lonely. While many will question whether they can repair their old relationship, others accept the relationship is over and that it is time to move on the next step in their journey. Honey, accept the fact that he or she is just not that into you and start to live life again! You owe it to your own Love IQ!
A friend of mine is in her mid 30’s. She truly wishes to manifest a soul mate. Her biological clock is ticking and her body is giving her a sense of urgency. I ache for her as she has tried all kinds of things from on-line dating to those 5 minute meeting mates exchanges. However, she has not done the work on herself. She does not love herself enough to increase her Emotional IQ. Consequently she will continue finding men who do not match her criteria until she herself has done the healing work on herself. In other words, you get what you currently are because that is your energy or vibration rate. Like attracts like in the body energy world. So if you wish to attract someone who is gentle, then you have to be gentle. If you wish to attract someone who is honest, then you have to walk your talk and be honest yourself. If you want to attract someone who is respectful towards you, then you have to respect yourself and others. That’s the Law of Attraction.
Yah but how do you do that? Perhaps you have to walk your Love Journey alone for awhile. Give yourself some time and space to actively work on developing your own self esteem. The first step is work on yourself alone or with friends who are supportive. Ditch the friends who are negative and surround yourself with those who truly want only good things for you. The second step is be clear on what qualities you want in a soul mate. I have done several postings on core beliefs. The third step is get in touch with your feelings. How would you feel if you had the ideal mate? I don’t care if you are a man. You need to understand how you would feel having just the ideal soul mate for you. The fourth step is to create your manifesting or vision board during the 2 weeks of the New Moon Cycle. See www.astromoon.wordpress.com for when those times are. Read your Vision Board every day first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Read it with intense feeling. You will increase your own vibration rate by remaining positive. So make sure you have positive affirmations on your manifesting board. Say it, Believe it is true, then Act as if it is already in your life! Connect the dots. If you don’t follow what you think you want, with emotions and then action, it will never manifest in your life. You owe it to yourself. Change is in the air. Just act on it!
Reflection Questions on Love IQ
1. How well on a scale of 1-10 do I love myself? How high is my own self esteem?
2. What core beliefs or qualities do I show to others?
3. Do I feel comfortable being alone with just my thoughts and feelings, or do I have to drown everything out with noise?
4. What 4 strong feelings would I have if I had my ideal soul mate?
Affirmation and Intentions:
I intend to love myself enough that my little voice in my head says positive things about me.
I intend to feel comfortable in my own skin, so that I can be alone with my thoughts and feelings.
I am honest, trustworthy and respectful to myself.
I work on my self esteem every day. I pamper me!
Each man lives love in his limited fashion and
Does not seem to relate the resultant confusion and loneliness
To his lack of knowledge about love.
(Leo Buscaglia; Love)
I love my journey into myself. Do you love your journey? If not, then do the work to empower yourself! If you found this helpful, then visit my website www.moonwomenspirituality.com. If your want information on how the daily Moon and Sun energy affects you, your love and your relationships, visit www.astromoon.wordpress.com