Love Those Dating Relationships

Passion, deep hearted sighs, and drumbeat heart thumping when you see your beloved?  It’s daisy picking time!  He loves me, he loves me not.  Remember the love poem we sang as kids?  We all have picked the petals off daisies when we were teenagers trying to determine whether the latest man of our dreams loves us or not.  I don’t care whether you are 13, 23, 33, 53 or 73 years old, you still will experience the same unsure feelings when you are dating someone new. 


The only sure thing is that you will go through a step by step process of first adoring the new person in your life.  All you want to do is dream about him, talk about him incessantly to your closest friends and sit by the phone anxiously awaiting his call.  Your heart thumps wildly when you see him and blood easily rushes to your face.  During the next stage when you actually have gone out a few times, you begin to notice his human-ness.  Some things aren’t 100% perfect, but that’s okay too.  You have adjusted what you want out of the relationship and are still perfectly okay because he fits 85% of your criteria. 


During the third phase, you literally are at a cross roads.  You’ve been together for some time.  You are seeing cracks through the mask he puts on as his public face.  Can you live with the real person?  Your mask is also beginning to crack as he sees you in action when you do things together.  In this stage you are more willing to trust and show a deeper inner you that is a truer picture of who you are.  You have risked taking off your public face.  However, if you do not find he is honorable and trustworthy with some of your fragile feelings, your public mask soon returns.  This is the phase where you decide to stay with him or to leave.


During the fourth phase, your relationship deepens as your love deepens.  You have settled into a more lasting love that possibly can stand the test of time.  Deeper love feelings in relationships are based on four “must-have” qualities: trust, honorable great communication skills, and reliablility.

Love Calculator Questions  On a scale of 1-10 where 5 = average, 10 = the best

1.      how trustworthy is your sweetheart?

2.       How honorable is your sweetheart?

3.      How well do the two of you communicate about matters important to both of you?

4.      How reliable is he?  How reliable are you? 

Add up your love calculator.  If your score is 20 or less then you have a lot of work to do.  If your score is 28 or more, you are well on your way to a lasting relationship!

I love my journey into myself.  Do you love your journey?  If not, then do the work to change that!  If you found this helpful, then visit my website or if your desire information on how horoscopes relate to love, visit


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