What is your love calculator? In order to have abundance or wealth in your relationships, you truly do have to examine your personal love calculator. Only you can control that love calculator because you control your emotional reaction to life. If you want to improve the quality of your love relationships, you have to do the work! So let’s work at increasing your self awareness. By your being a happier person, the whole world rejoices. Global Consciousness is also raised up a notch. By your having more peace in your heart, there will be more peace in this world.
Our emotions are governed by largely by our birth Moon sign in our personal astrology charts. However, the Moon changes signs every couple of days. Many of us change emotions to match and reflect that Moon sign change. If you are interested in pursuing this further then visit my astrology blog at www.wisewomaninwoods.blog.ca.
In his book, Emotional IQ, Goleman notes there are 5 main areas that indicate we will choose to have an emotional successful life. I have those 5 areas outlined for you in the reflection questions.
- know your emotions. When you are feeling something can you put a name to it? Increase your self-awareness.
- manage your emotions. How do you manage your behavior when you are sad? When you are angry? When you are full of joy and happiness?
- motivate yourself. How well you master managing your emotions is up to you. On a scale of 1-10, where do you feel you are at this moment in time? 5 = average.
- recognize emotions in others. This is called people skills. Where are you at on your scale of 1 – 10 in your people skills? How well do you read other peoples’ emotions?
- handling relationships. If you are at least at a 5 in knowing how someone else feels, then you are well on your way to handling your relationships effectively. When you are in negative emotion, pause and ask yourself where you are on your love and relationship calculator!
I love my journey into myself. Do you love your journey? If not, then do the work to change that! If you found this helpful, then visit my website www.moonwomenspirituality.com for more in-depth information.